Don’t Let The Opponent Decide Your Game

How many times did you feel that you were let down by the bad events happening in your life? How many times did the people around you let you down in their own style? How many insults did you bear so far? How many times did you feel that your life's game is over and the chance to decide the end of the game is in somebody else hands? I know…

Every time a tragedy strucks, you think in the preceding way. No matter what the kind and type of the situation is, even after bearing all the hardships in one's life, suddenly at one point of time, the mind becomes sensitive to the bad events happening to you. That single sensitive soft spot has the potential to make a hole through your iron will and steel nerves. If you let it go, then it has the capacity to bring you down. Therefore, no matter what, you need to stop it.

Don't let your game decided by others. Even if you are at the losing end, don't give a chance to others to decide how your game should be closed. Never give your opponent the satisfaction that s/he successfully closed the game of yours in a way s/he wants. No! In the first place, don't think that the game is over. You can still stop the opponent. No matter whatever strength s/he possesses.

If the time is showing adverse signs, the luck is miles away from you, your mind/body is ditching you, but your opponent is going strong, then decide the game of yours in such a way that though the opponent wins practically, but psychologically s/he should never feel the winning happiness.

By writing the end of your game in your own way, you will win the opponent no matter how strong s/he is.